New Lifehouse Helps Teen Girls with Power & Control Issues  

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New Lifehouse Academy Treats Teens with Power & Control Issues  

Parents looking for effective therapy methods to help a struggling teen boy or girl can learn about how we treat Power and Control issues at our Teen Challenge therapeutic boarding school in Oklahoma.   

New Lifehouse Academy understands that parents want to send their teen to a safe, monitored environment where their teen receives personal care and individual therapies that help heal emotional and mental disorders–whether brought on by trauma, foster care, adoption, or family genetics.   

And while your teen enrolls in our therapeutic boarding school for counseling, treatment, and improving academic/life skills New Lifehouse Academy also helps students struggling with power and control issues improve their mental and physical health.

Power and Control?

“Children who struggle with power and control issues manifest this struggle in a variety of ways. Here are just a few:”

  • Ignoring a direct instruction or command
  • Completing tasks half-way
  • Using the “silent treatment”
  • Pushing a limit (for example a child is told to stop throwing the ball in the house, throws it one more time, and then stops)
  • Refusing to eat what is placed before him
  • Lashing out with anger when reprimanded
  • Refusing to apologize

“A child with power and control issues only feels worthwhile when he is dominating those around him. He achieves this domination by getting adults to do what he wants or by only doing what he wants to do. He is likely experiencing deep-seated insecurities which are masked by these power plays.”

Another therapist shares, “In my experience, this behavior came about for one or more of these reasons: 

1. Kids with underdeveloped lower centers of the brain often experience a lot of failures when others are leading. That’s because those in control usually have no awareness of how to build into the structure (i.e. make subtle modifications) so that such kids can then easily comply and experience success. So to avoid that dreaded sense of failure, some kids compensate by seizing control of the situation. They’ll insist on doing it “their way.” But their way also works best for their brain, and now makes it impossible to fail by not doing a task as others expect.

2. Kids take control because others (inadvertently) reinforce this distorted sense of power by giving a lot of attention to the negative behavior. Here, the child’s brain may actually register to hold the whole family hostage (by refusing to do whatever and thereby delaying everyone) as giving him a distorted sense of importance. It’s even better if family members become upset. Now he’s even controlling how they act! He’s center-stage as he proves that, again and again, he can turn a whole house upside down. And every time he’s allowed to do that, he further entrenches a brain map that reinforces he’s the boss. 

3. Kids take control when they don’t trust those in charge to lead. If that’s so, then a key question to ponder is . . . how did those kids lose that trust in the first place?”

New Lifehouse Academy boarding school in OklahomaSome variables that affect trust are:

  • As parents, we second-guess many of our decision
  • We’re inconsistent with how we respond
  • We focus more on the negative, without honoring the present gifts our child has to share
  • We don’t regularly build into the structure to make it easy to comply.

New Lifehouse Academy Gives Families Healthy Ways to Heal Issues

That’s why New Lifehouse Academy treats students with Power and Control issues. Therapists address your child’s mental and behavioral issues and create an individual treatment plan to follow at school, including therapy. We also provide nutritious meals, and healthy exercise and activities. We want each student to experience effective counseling and treatment, as well as improve daily life at school, and back home with family.

If you want to learn more about how New Lifehouse Academy treats teen girls struggling with Power and Control issues at our Teen Challenge therapeutic boarding school, please call 888-381-4897.

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New Lifehouse Helps Teen Girls with Power & Control Issues  

If your troubled teen girl is struggling with power & control issues, New Lifehouse Academy can help. Contact us today to find out more!